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On Sovereignty, Regulation & “Love and Light”
“Love and light” became a pejorative at some point in a world that forgot what they are — and what they can do. If there’s one thing 𝘐 can do, it’s to…
Why I Deleted My First YouTube Video
My first video was confronting, hard-lined, and sharp. I spent its launch braced for impact. Meanwhile, I wasn’t putting myself on the line—I was hiding behind it.
The Self-Imposed Matrix of Lateral Freedom
Fear is the only thing holding up the illusion that we can be trapped by any condition outside of us. Trust, if you are reading this, you are already free.
Body Wisdom
Spirit: Your clairs (psychic abilities, clairvoyance, etc.) are related to your intuition, but they are not a substitute for your body. Embodiment means holding your relationship to your body as first and foremost.
The “Love Language” Trap
“Physical touch is my love language.” POV: You didn’t ask. But the person you’re connecting with made sure to let you know.
Polyamory and the Shadow of Hierarchy
“Overnights don’t work with the boundaries I have set up with my wife. Let’s keep things casual, okay?” My heart sank into my gut. I realized I had a need that had nothing to do with the sex we’d been having.
Potential, Projection and the Journey of Discernment
As your level rises—your frequency, emotional health, finances, success, etc.— So too does the potential you see in other people. Not because they actually have access to…
When ‘Healthy Communication’ Becomes a Weapon
Raise your hand if you've been personally victimized by 'Spiritual Mansplaining'...
The Micro-Assaults of Woman-hood
Women experience sexual exploitation mostly through a life of normalized micro-assaults.
The Dark Side of Asking for Consent
This weekend, I was outside at a retreat talking to a man who was using his hands to demonstrate a point. Suddenly, he asked if he could touch me…
Celibacy Reflections
2 years ago, I set the boundary that I wouldn't have sex with someone until we had established a committed relationship. That ultimately resulted in a year and a half of…